The weight of unimaginable grief settled over a family this week, as the body of Staff Sergeant Itay Chen, the last known U.S. citizen held by Hamas, was finally returned to Israeli soil. At just 19 years old, Itay’s story is a heartbreaking echo of the brutal October 7th attacks, a testament to a life cut short while defending his homeland.
Confirmation came Monday from the Israel Defense Forces, following a painstaking identification process. Itay, a dual U.S.-Israeli citizen, had been missing since the morning of the attacks, his fate a source of agonizing uncertainty for his parents, Ruby and Hagit, and his brothers, Roi and Alon.
He was a combat soldier with the 77th Battalion of the 7th Armored Brigade, fighting near Kibbutz Nahal Oz – a community ravaged by the initial Hamas assault. His tank was struck during the fierce battle, and his body was tragically taken into Gaza. Though his death was officially confirmed months ago, the return of his remains allows for a final farewell.
Itay wasn’t just a soldier; he was a young man brimming with life. He grew up in Netanya, excelling in an advanced academic program, and was remembered by those who knew him for his infectious warmth, quick wit, and unwavering dedication. His passions included basketball, the challenge of a good hike, and the thrill of rock climbing.
Even before joining the army, Itay demonstrated a profound sense of responsibility. While working as a camp counselor, he sustained an injury but refused to leave his post, determined to set a positive example for the children under his care. This selflessness foreshadowed his later decision to enlist, driven by a deep-seated desire to protect others.
For over a year, Itay’s parents waged a tireless campaign, relentlessly pursuing every avenue to bring their son home. They engaged with high-level officials in both Israel and the United States, including former President Trump, pleading for the return of all hostages and the remains of those lost. Their unwavering hope, though ultimately met with sorrow, underscored the profound love for their son.
While Itay’s return offers a measure of closure for his family, the pain is far from over. Seven other hostages remain in Gaza, their fates still unknown, and the fight for their release continues. The Hostages and Missing Families Forum vowed to not rest until every single individual is brought home.
This week, Itay will be laid to rest with full military honors, a final tribute to a young life sacrificed in defense of his country. His memory will serve as a poignant reminder of the human cost of conflict and the enduring power of hope, even in the face of unimaginable loss.
